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Making friends is a skill, like playing the piano or bicycle. Skills can be learned and behaviors can change. While it may take more effort for some people to feel comfortable in a group, you can learn, especially if the child is ready to make the effort and know that their support.
Positive efforts to encourage a child to socialize with others and find a friend, even when it seems that these attempts are not successful response. For example, you might say, “I liked it when my friends call me and invite me places in my seminars, I find it helpful to list what people want in a friend.
- Kind and compassionate
- Willing to share happy moments and sad
- Sense of humor
- A positive attitude and optimistic
If you look at the list, which almost never included psychological attributes are all character traits and personal experience. If you do not have the skills, we can start working on doing some “every day until it becomes an automatic action. The irony is that people, young and old, tend to blame lack of appearances friends, when active, attitudes and traits that wanted friendship. You should make a list of what your child is looking for a friend, and do not forget to remember that appearances can be deceiving. It is more stimulating for a child a list of their positive qualities that make her a valuable friend to do it for you. You cannot make your child happy, popular, talented and attractive to other children. What you can do is offer suggestions, support, opportunities and options. Fortunately, the signs of social interaction and “click” with a good group of friends who support their school years and become friends for life.
How to manage social situations affects how children’s social interaction.